But in a world that puts such a premium on looking young, she says at times she feels "ugly"."We live in a social [media] ...

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

"I advised her that the best thing she can do in the long term is end the engagement and never see this fiance or his family ...